“Out of Focus: My Story of Sexuality, Shame, and Toxic Evangelicalism”
by Amber Cantorna-Wylde
Westminster Knox Press, 2023, 225 Pages

At A Glance: “Out of Focus” exposes the deep harm caused by evangelicalism to 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and calls for a shift towards love and inclusion.

Overview: “Out of Focus: My Story of Sexuality, Shame, and Toxic Evangelicalism” by Amber Cantorna-Wylde is a poignant memoir and insightful cultural critique that addresses the damaging effects of evangelicalism on 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals.

As a 2023 Indies Award Finalist, the book recounts Amber’s personal experience of being cast out by her Focus on the Family executive father after coming out in 2012. It explores the broader harmful impact of evangelical leaders and organizations that prioritize conservative beliefs over acceptance and love, leading to deep-seated shame, trauma, and family estrangement.

Cantorna-Wylde’s story underscores the urgent need for Christian communities to embrace love and inclusion over exclusion and hatred.

Also By This Author:

“Unashamed: A Coming-Out Guide for LGBTQ Christians”
“Refocusing My Family: Coming Out, Being Cast Out & Discovering the True Love of God”

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