Embrace Over Respectability

One of the most striking stories in the Gospels is the woman who had been hemorrhaging for twelve years. Her condition left her physically suffering, financially depleted, and religiously marginalized. According to the purity codes of her day, her ongoing bleeding rendered her unclean. For twelve years, she lived with the social and spiritual consequences of that reality.
Then Jesus passes through her town surrounded by a crowd. She does not ask permission or wait to be invited. She reaches out and touches his cloak, convinced that even that small act might be enough. Immediately she is healed.
What strikes me is that Jesus does not rebuke her for touching him or correct her for crossing a social boundary. He does not stop the healing until the proper religious questions have been answered. The healing comes first. Only afterward does Jesus stop, seek her out, and speak to her. When she finally comes forward, trembling and afraid, Jesus calls her “daughter.” In front of everyone who had spent years defining her by her condition, he publicly restores her dignity and belonging.
Churches often talk about welcoming people. Jesus seems more interested in something deeper. Again and again, he is found alongside people pushed to the margins by sickness, poverty, reputation, or circumstance. During Pride Month, many queer and trans people still find themselves in communities where belonging is offered only after certain expectations are met or certain parts of themselves are hidden. Yet Jesus does not begin with respectability. He begins with relationship. He begins with restoration. The remarkable thing about this story is not that the woman reached for Jesus. It is that when she did, he responded as though she already belonged.

