The Family Who Joins Us

The Family Who Join Us   When people talk about chosen family during Pride Month, they often describe the people who welcomed them after they had been rejected. I understand that story. It matters. Yet when I think about chosen family, I think about something else. I think about

Allyship By Any Other Name

Allyship By Any Other Name I have spent a lot of time thinking about allyship over the years. I believe it matters. Every movement for justice depends, in part, on people deciding that an injustice affecting someone else is also their concern. At its best, allyship interrupts indifference. It

Pride From Away

Pride From Away One of the themes that has surfaced repeatedly throughout this Pride series is belonging. Not visibility. Not welcome. Belonging. The difference matters because it is possible to be welcomed into a space while still feeling that parts of yourself have been left outside the door. I

Pride & Poverty

Pride & Poverty   Pride is often associated with visibility. We think about parades, rainbow flags, public celebrations, and hard-won victories. Those things matter. Yet I sometimes wonder about the stories that remain largely invisible even during Pride Month. A young person comes out and loses the support of

What Pride Demands Of Me

What Pride Demands Of Me When I first admitted that I was bisexual, my attention was focused almost entirely on myself. Not out of selfishness, but survival. I was trying to understand who I was, what it meant for my faith, and whether there was a future for someone

Pride In A Small Town

Pride In A Small Town   I grew up in a small rural community in northwestern Ontario. It was there, in high school, that I first admitted to myself and others that I was attracted to other guys. I did not embrace it. I did not know what to

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